At the Indie Author Summit

Delighted to share successful strategies for debut authors, drawing on my 3-year media+event promotion campaign for A Family, Maybe.

I divided my workshop-style presentation into pre-launch, launch, and post-publication steps – with specific tips and links. This was my 2nd book marketing talk this one, the previous one being at Southwest Manuscripters, and both times, I had to stay past the given timeslot to answer quesions. Participants also told me that they liked the handout provided with the talk.

This ticketed event was in-person in Ohio and live on Zoom. Many thanks to The Anna Jinja Show (find it on PBS and Pacifica radio affiliates, and in the podcast universe), which hosted the summit and had my book available on site.

My next book marketing talk will be in-person at The 29 Palms Book Festival in November.

It’s a Wrap with Rap podcast interview

Navigating the Journey of Gay Parenting and Foster Adoption” is the title of the 1-hour episode on which the seasoned podcaster Ron Rapaport interviews me on his “podcast of overcomers and of useful information to better our lives and mental spirit.”

In the episode notes, Ron writes: “Lane’s story is not only inspiring but also serves as a resource for those considering adoption, offering hope and guidance to prospective parents facing similar paths.”

Listen to the episode here.


Episode description:

“Navigating the Journey of Gay Parenting and Foster Adoption”

In this episode of It’s a Wrap with Wrap, Lane Igoudin shares his personal experience as a gay parent navigating the foster-to-adopt process, highlighting the challenges, legal battles, and heartwarming moments he and his husband faced while building their family. Lane talks candidly about his memoir A Family, Maybe, which documents his trials and triumphs of adopting kids from the largest foster care system in the United States. He also provides insights into the societal shifts regarding LGBTQ families and the evolving landscape of adoption laws.

Listeners will gain understanding about the foster adoption process, the importance of having realistic expectations, and the role community support plays in adopting children. Lane’s story is not only inspiring but also serves as a resource for those considering adoption, offering hope and guidance to prospective parents facing similar paths.

On Healthy Mind, Healthy Life podcast

A fulfilling conversation with Avik Chakraborty on his podcast featuring “real stories from humans who’ve walked through something and come back with something worth sharing.”

Listen here.

Episode Summary

“In this heartfelt episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, Lane Igoudin, PhD, an advocate for foster adoption and mindful parenting, recounts his transformative journey navigating the unpredictable foster–adoptive process while emphasizing that true family is built on love, commitment, and shared growth. He discusses the challenges of the adoption system, the importance of nurturing the partnership between parents, and how children can teach us about compassion and self-reflection.

Drawing from personal experience and his book A Family, Maybe, Lane offers actionable insights on embracing uncertainty, building community, and honoring each child’s unique identity.

His wisdom encourages parents to pause, truly observe their children, and invest in what makes them naturally thrive, thereby creating a resilient, loving home.”

Listen here.

Live studio interview on KLBP-FM

This was my 44th radio / TV / podcast interview, but the first one done live in a studio, with a microphone dangling in front of me, no breaks for an hour, no edits, so still a new experience.

We taped it live in the KLBP studio in downtown Long Beach on July 5, 2026, on “Tea Time with Cinnamon Rivera: Positive Loving Interviews Live.” An hour flew by as Cinnamon, her co-host Breeze, and I chatted for about our families, our communities, coming out, and, of course, my book A Family, Maybe.

Cinnamon chose the theme song, “Papa Don’t Preach,” which is ultimately about the choice to be a parent.

The repeat of the show will run on KLBP at 9 am on July 10, 2026, and will likely air again in the future. In the meantime, listen to the interview recording here and let me know what you think!

Pride Month Author Talk at Alpert JCC

Honored to be invited to speak about our family journey and Jewish parenting values at the beautfiul Alpert JCC in Long Beach as their LGBTQ Pride Month speaker.

The JCC did an outstanding job publicizing the talk and provided the space and the refreshments. We had good attendance.

This was my 3rd talk about Jewish parenting in four months, highlighting a particular aspect of the book.

In my presentation, I focused on our family story, representative of the first generation of out LGBTQ families, but also on distinct challenges – and blessings – of being a multicultural, adoptive gay family. I included insights from Jewish cultural and religious texts, with handouts to take home, read excerpts from my book, did the Q&A and book signings – we went on for almost 2 hours!

Thank you for bringing me in to share our story, Jewish Long Beach! And Happy Pride🏳️‍🌈!

Speaking at a Temple Beth Am / IKAR event

I had some pretty big shoes to fill last night.

My talk about raising adoptive kids Jewish was scheduled alongside four others, immediately following a plenary featuring LA’s two most distinguished rabbis: Rabbi Elliot Dorff and Rabbi Sharon Brous.

I was nervous, but I came prepared with an assortment of sources from classical Jewish texts addressing adoption and Jewish parenting, augmenting them with stories from our hands-on experience and passages from my book. My talk was part of the TBALA/IKAR lineup for Shavuot: the Jewish holiday in which we celebrate the giving of the Torah on Mount Sinai with an all-night study of holy and relevant texts.

I had a good group of attendees who brought much to the discussion, and in the end, it was exactly what it was meant to be: an intense learning experience.

At the Long Beach LGBTQ Center Library opening

Thrilled to be part of the opening of the Center’s new Booher Library. The event called “Pride in the Pages” included 9 authors. We read, we talked, we signed books, we all had a good time! Glad to see now a central place for LGBTQ literature in our large, diverse hometown.

My latest JJ article rediscovers a forgotten Jewish kingdom

My article uncovers the spectacular rise and fall of a once flourishing Jewish kingdom of Himyar in southern Arabia. It appears on p. 24 of the Jewish Journal in print (April 17-23, 2026, p. 24) and online,

The story carries a particular resonance today as in some ways, it echoes the ongoing conflict in the region.

To write about it, I dug deep into the recent books by Oxford and Cambridge historians in order to share it with the JJ readers. What I found there astounded me . . .CONTINUE TO READ ONLINE →︎

A stone inscription celebrating a victory of the Jewish Himyarite King Yusuf located near Najran, Saudi Arabia.
Early 6th century CE [Wikimedia Commons, 2021]

See my previous articles in the Jewish Journal:

The Vanishing Bridge | Jan. 31 – Feb. 6, 2025, p. 24 | Jewish Journal

The Third Hand: Finding Spiritual Comfort in Empty Nesting | August 9-15, 2024, p. 24 | Jewish Journal

On It’s Both

Three Years in the Maybe” is the title of the episode in which therapist Nikki Piispanen is interviewing me on her podcast It’s Both: Living in the Messy Middle.

It’s Both is described as: “Top 5% podcast globally. For people exhausted by the pressure to pick one feeling, one answer, one way forward. We explore what happens when you let more than one thing be true at the same time.”

Here is a short fragment from the interview.

For the full episode, click here.

Reviewing a unique memoir, The Shochet, in Tablet

The Shochet, (Touro U. Press, 2023-2025), is a rare, complex, and important document of life in the Pale of Settlement in the late 19th – early 20th century. I came across the book by accident and felt a particular affinity for it when it mentioned the shtetl near the Ukrainian / Bessarabian border where my grandparents were born.

In The Shochet, Pinye-Ber Goldenshteyn recounts his tumultuous life journey as an orphan and later a working shochet (kosher slaughterer) in Podolia, Bessarabia, and Crimea. Through a myriad of rich details of his narrative and juicy stories, we get to observe the dramatic transformation of the Pale in the 1860s-1910s. The poor, oppressed, but generally stable Jewish way of life that Goldenshteyn is born into is within a few decades taken apart and ultimately destroyed by the rising nationalism, secularism, and revolutionary socialism. This historical drama also unfolds in Goldenshteyn’s own family as most of his children abandon strict religious observance in favor of modern lifestyles and relationships. 

Goldenshteyn’s memoir is one of the first surviving Yiddish-language autobiographies, but it had only appeared in English in short excerpts. The 2-volume edition which I am reviewing in Tablet is its first complete English translation. 

The Shochet is unique as well in being penned not by a famous and secularized Jew, the two categories usually going together, but by someone from the ranks of the poor and traditional mass of Jews who populated the Pale. His depictions are folksy and candid, and as such are often more effective, even devastating at times, exactly because of their unvarnished candidness. 

You can read my full review here or by following the link below.